Tons of other gay men prefer monogamous relationships too
The chase is normally better than the sex! Granted, the first one was brief, but the second one is still going strong just under twenty years. It would be easy to judge gay couples negatively from this article if you are not in favor of non-monogamy. This gives them time to move past the romantic love part of their relationship which typically lasts six to eighteen months and sexual desire toward each other begins to decline.
Books on affairs have been exploding in the self-help market in the past 10 years. Historically, it was believed, and still is, that if a couple was open to bringing in others for sex, that was the beginning of the end for their relationship.
A 30 uptick in new profiles created by gay men
- For some, even 'sliding into someone's DMs' could be deemed cheating, whereas others wouldn't necessarily see anything wrong with that.
- Jealousy or Compersion?
Just sex to a guy who was molested in adolescence by older stepbrother with same age step brother and has trauma from hustling never learned to flirt date etc and now no female companionship or sex twelve years. This is something that could take many conversations.
But I still have issues with you about monogamy. Kristoff Bonello DPsych et al. Psychiatrist and therapist said twelve years celibacy dangerous mental health crisis not found any medical searches also that many men have undesired same-sex encounters and prefer females but that is just the way it is.